Just had a conversation with my close friend and he asked me to change a few things in my attitude and behaviour, as he thinks I am “TOO KIND” , I was shocked to hear this , but he explained me well and said this world is not as good as one thinks and just there to use your good nature to their best interest..
Well I was not completely convinced, as I argued that “What goes around ,comes back around” and “Every Action has an equal and opposite reaction” , things just do not go in vain. But he argued on saying that one should do good if you get something good back from “good people” only and not do good or spend a penny even on people who are selfish..
Umm Do you think So ?? Well i agree to an extent but not completely … I think a person should just do whatever he feels, help or be good to anyone he wants not select and be good with a selected group of people…
Why This??? Why Change for the rest ??? Why Not just be Yourself ?? 😦
We all think that we are in control of our lives well the fact is that we are not. Every day situations and instances shape our lives even without you knowing it. You keep doing things that is in your cognitive sense. You unknowingly accept facts and convert those assumptions into reality for your own benefit. Call this trait of human behaviour good or bad, but it is one of the most critical facts which is and has always been a major psychological reason behind evolution of the “mind” alone.
I have come to believe after various observations that there are far too many possibilities more than societal , cultural & religious, which shape the human behaviour and mind. One may reason an adult to behave & think immature while a child to behave maturely are some vivid examples of the development of human mind, which is different in various situations.
Thus everyday when we see, hear or taste something new , we are developing ourselves, unknowingly, you therefore never remain the same person the next day! ….